Tuesday, June 30, 2015

Heavy Heart

My heart is heavy.

Even though we are done moving.

Even though tomorrow we leave on a well deserved vacation.


Last year at this time, our hearts were burdened for one of Abbi's best friends, Maggie. As many of you will remember, Maggie and her father were hit by a truck while riding their scooter. She spent most of her summer vacation in bed recuperating, first in the ICU unit, then a regular hospital room, and finally, at home. She started the school year in a wheel chair, then crutches. By the end of the school year, walking on her own, For her birthday last month, her parents took her hiking.

Yesterday, Maggie's boyfriend and fellow classmate was hit by a car walking home from volunteering at a hospital. 

Maggie and Josh at JS Banquet.

Broken ribs, collapsed lung.

Fractured skull. Swelling and bleeding.

Joshua is non responsive at this time.

Twice, his heart has stopped.

Twice, they have resuscitated.

If he codes again, they will not make another attempt.


Will you please join us in praying?

The next 48 hours are critical. 

Please pray God will strengthen Josh's heart, the swelling and bleeding to stop, and the doctors to have wisdom. Pray that God will heal and reverse any damage to the brain. Ask God for a complete healing.

Please pray for his parents. 

I can't even begin to imagine what turmoil, sadness, anxiety, devastation they must be feeling.

Please pray for Maggie. Last year, she was the unconscious one in the hospital bed. She knows the pain. She understands in a way most of us cannot.

Please pray for Abbi and her fellow classmates. This is a familiar path they are on.

Kevin Chen, a 2015 Morrison graduate shared a few words of wisdom recently on Facebook. I hope Kevin won't mind me quoting his thoughts.


"God is faithful. It's not a question why He does stuff to us that makes us feel worried and distressed, but what is His purpose from a situation. The only question is: is your faith with him deep enough to Trust that He has a purpose for every event? God saved us, and he wants us to trust in him. Yes it's hard to believe sometimes, but there's a light in the end."






Friday, June 19, 2015

Gray Hairs

The heat drove us to desperate measures again!

This time, we knew exactly where to go. And this time, I double bagged my camera so I could share the beauty of Taiwan's interior.






Since today was Dragon Boat Festival,  a national holiday, there were more people than just us out exploring and enjoying the offerings of this island. We didn't let that stop our fun!





The title of this blog was gray hairs. Appropriately titled!



Keep scrolling.


No, they wouldn't!

Oh, yes, they would!

I have the videos to prove it!


 Here are the links to the videos, but they are sideways. Evidently, I do not yet have the software necessary to rotate videos. I could really use the help of Nick right about now!





I am sure each of those jumps (Ben did three, Jacob two, and Abbi one) added at least one or more gray hairs to my head!

And just so you don't think I've gone completely mad, the depth of the water and any boulders located under the water was checked before their initial plunge. 

Life with my crazy kids!





Thursday, June 18, 2015

Friends and Coworkers


And, yes, another goodbye.

Although, this one is not the result of graduation.
It is also not, a long term goodbye, just a brief, see you in five months, goodbye.

I have been friends with Don and Marla for a long time. They were just finishing up language school when I first arrived in Taiwan twenty some years ago.

The friendship strengthened despite the distance between Ohio and Taiwan. 

Since our arrival, we have enjoyed many meals, vacations, and laughter.

Recently, we gathered along with Anna, Michael, and several other former coworkers to wish Don and Marla safe travels as they returned to USA for a shortened time of home service. Besides helping their youngest son get settled into a new life in California, they will be visiting supporting churches, including our home church, Faith Worship Center in London, Ohio. 

During our afternoon and evening of fellowship, we visited a tea shop where we enjoyed delicious traditional tea. 


Made in the traditional Chinese tea pot, the experience is quite different than having tea with a friend in America.


Tea cups are small and frequently refilled. I have no idea how much I drank, because Michael kept  my cup full no matter how much I drank. Unlike American tea, this tea is not sweetened. 


Small dishes of plums, peanuts, and pineapple cake were served, also. Michael's kids preferred the mass produced tea sold at a nearby convenient store!

Upon leaving the tea shop, we travelled to the other side of town to enjoy a meal with several other former coworkers of Don and Marla's. 


We basically took over this small restaurant, eating and fellowshipping for hours. While we knew most of these precious brothers and sisters in Christ, a few were knew to us. It was a joy to catch up with some and meet others for the first time.





In case you wondered.... I had a delicious meal. The main dish was a stew of mushrooms and tofu. The sides included stir-fried cabbage, some greens, steamed egg whites, and the customary white rice. Carl, of course, disapproved of my meatless dish. I, on-the-other-hand, found it delicious and fulfilling. 

I wish every goodbye could be this tasty!

Tuesday, June 16, 2015

Adventures (Part 2)

When you last visited, I left you hanging.

Not a very neighborly thing to do.

I apologize.

Back to our adventurous week.

So after recuperating for a day after our Taipei adventure, the heat and humidity drove us to drastic measures- exploring the mountainous countryside in hopes of finding a waterfall, a river, a watering hole, anything that contained cool refreshing clean water. I added the clean, so we wouldn't end up in any of the water filled city ditches or canals. Not sure the of the origins of that water!

The results of our exploring involved caves, bats, boulders, and yes, a waterfall!

Not far from Taichung is The Bat Cave. We knew there was a waterfall nearby. It was in that direction we headed. Although we have been near the Bat Cave before, we had never stopped to explore. 

Our first try involved an enchanting suspension bridge, but no caves. No bats.





Our second stop netted us the opportunity to do a little spelunking. The cave was dark, but luckily we had some cell phones. The passage way was narrow and while I didn't have to lean over, Carl did. At times, my shoulders were touching both walls at the same time. Poor Carl had to lean over and turn sideways.

The farther you went, the narrower it became.
But, that wasn't even the worse part.

The passage way in several parts contained several inches of a watery muddy mixture. At one point it went up over my ankles. Yuck! I was looking for water, but not slimy, slippery goo. We never made it all the way back to the large cave with all the bats.  A bunch of bats hanging upside down and sleeping is highly overrated.

 I  had two thoughts going through my head: I hope these bats don't wake up and think its time to go out and hunt and I hope the experts are correct about not expecting another big earthquake soon.

Once again, nice place to visit, but glad to be moving on!
So  we traveled  on with our comfortable air conditioning adequately cooling the interior of the van.




As usual, temples, small and big abound.




From the road, we saw a small waterfall. But was this the waterfall for which we searched. It was so small. Beautiful, but worthy of a location on the sightseeing map?  



Not wanting to leave empty experienced we hiked down the ravine and did a little climbing and splashing. Cooled and refreshed, we continued. Stopping often to look at the roadside maps, and after multiple wrong turns, we saw a sign declaring a waterfall was nearby. The path led downward.





Not knowing if our search would end successfully, we hiked up the river. This involved climbing over, through, and under  small, big, and even bigger boulders. It required leaping into calm pools of water and swimming through otherwise impassable areas. 

At the end, our diligence and unwavering curiosity rewarded us for that which we yearned.

A waterfall.

Several stories high, it fed into a large pool of cool refreshing liquid.

My only regret, not owning a waterproof camera, I had no way to capture the beauty of our find. Not wanting to drop, drown, or crush my camera, I had left it back at the opening of the path along with a set of dry clothes!  

Jacob being the adventurous climber decided to ascend to the top of the waterfall. A rope had been left dangling into the water, attached securely, hopefully, from above. 

As a mom I wanted to scream "stop, you might get hurt". But on the other hand, I was proud of his determination and willingness to attempt a challenging climb. So I cheered him on, urging him to not give up, but to keep striving to reach the top. On the inside, however, I was calculating the risks and playing the  "what if" game. That and praying!

At the top of the waterfall several Chinese men watched as Jacob struggled to reach the second rope. The first rope only took him halfway to the top. Success required letting go of one rope and reaching for the second. Expecting the men to throw the second rope closer to him. Jacob dangled precariously.. His hands arms holding on while the waterfall rushed around his feet. Footing impossible to gain on the steep slippery water soaked rocks. 

At this point dropping back down involved a steep bumpy ride down the lower part of the waterfall. The only safe option was to continue. Inching his way closer, Jacob finally grasped the second rope and safely ascended the rest of the way.

Not to be outdone by her younger sibling, Abbi decided to test her chances of successfully navigating up the rocky cliff. Once again, I wanted to shout  "stop don't do it", but instead prayed for her safety. She, too, struggled to reach the second rope. Jacob tossed it closer to her grasp, but it fell short. The audience finally decided to help and were successful in placing the rope within her grasp.

After Abbi was safely at the top, Aki began his descent. At this point my kids were at the top while Carl and I were at the bottom . There was no easy way for them to come back down. They would have to find the road. Carl's and mine trek would take much longer. It had taken an hour of climbing and swimming to get to where we were. 

Could I safely get to the top?

I am proud to answer yes. For a few short minutes, I wondered. My arm span is small and that second rope was quite out of my reach, but luckily Aki was able to put it within a few inches of my reach. To let go with one hand to make a grab required a leap of faith. Of course, when I felt how thin and worn the second rope was, I had to block out "I hope this isn't the time it decides to give out" thoughts.

Carl safely made it up. 

Good thing because the sun was beginning to set. I am not sure we would have made it back going back the other way before darkness fell.

Although, wet, dirty, and tired, we left the waterfall refreshed and extremely satisfied.

Not a bad way to end an adventure! 






Saturday, June 13, 2015

Adventures

It was time for a break!



A break from boxes.

Yes, I am packing (again)!

Yes, we are moving (again)!

No, we are not moving to another continent!

We are moving to an apartment on the school campus, but I will save that for another post.

Needless to say, since graduation my focus has been on packing, organizing, and cleaning.

Enough is enough! 

Time for some adventures!

The first of our adventures this week stems from a necessary errand- a trip to the AIT (American Institute of Taiwan) in Taipei to renew the kids passports. They expire next March and before you start to think how organized and top of things I must be, Taiwan denies travel to anyone whose passport expires within six months. This means Abbi would not be able to join the swim team in October on their annual mission trip to the Philippians. Ben would not be able to return to Taiwan during his Christmas break. Jacob would be denied his first chance to travel as a high school athlete with the track team to Okinawa. 

So off to Taipei we went!

Our first stop was at the AIT to take care of business. No pictures allowed! They collected all phones, ipods, ipads, cameras, and other electronics as we entered the building. 

After that, the real fun began. After a short bus ride, we arrived at the Taipei 101 building. It is currently the 4th tallest building in the world and houses the fastest elevator. On a previous school trip, Jacob had the opportunity to go to the top.


Its hard to get a complete picture while standing on the street!


Our goal was not to actually go to Taipei One, but rather use it to find our other desired locations: 
H & M clothing store and Krispy Kreme!

We were successful on both counts. Abbi, Melissa, ans Ben shopped for about an hour. bThe best part was the air conditioning! Carl, Jacob, and I soaked up the refreshing cool air as we wandered around the store and then went outside to explore.

Using Taipei 101, our next destination was easily located.

For those of you who have never traveled to Taiwan, doughnuts and other pastries have a very deceiving quality. The look amazingly delicious, but when your teeth sinks into the flaky flesh, reality smacks your anticipating taste buds. Looks delicious, but its not.

Krispy Kreme is about the closest you can get to American tasting doughnuts this side of the Pacific Ocean.




We each picked two scrumptious looking treats, which we then shamelessly inhaled.

Family consensus- they were good, but Schulers in Springfield are better! 


The next part of our adventure required a mode of transportation of which we have little experience- the MRT, Taipei's subway and rails system. Tamsui, on the outskirts of New Taipei city, was at the end of the line, a fifty minute ride.



Before leaving home, Abbi used the internet and knew exactly what, when, and how. We arrived at our seaside destination with no problems.




Melissa wasn't the only one passing their time with an electronic devise. Phones have revolutionized long commute rides. Most people were either napping or surfing the net one way or another.

Arriving in Tansui, we immediately began looking for lunch. A Subway was sighted and my American food need was met.

Our ultimate reason for traveling this far north was to visit the son of a an old friend. Carl and Damian met at the YWAM Texas base where they both completed a DTS (Discipleship Training School). Carl had the pleasure of being a groomsman in Damian and Traci's wedding, and honored us by standing with Carl at our nuptials twenty-one years ago. 

Their oldest son, Andrew, arrived in Taiwan two months ago to attend a school of cartooning through the Taipei YWAM base. Unfortunately, his classes didn't end until 5pm

But as Tamsui is a coastal town, I wasn't too despondent. 


While the temperature reached the high 90's and the humidity  about 80 percent, a breeze accompanied those strolling along the boardwalk. The salty aroma and gently lapping waves, overshadowed the discomfort of sweat drenched skin.  


Statue dedicated to a Presbyterian doctor and missionary. 


On his previous trip, Jacob visited a fort. Our afternoon stroll led us there.



Not something you usually see at a fort. These were probably added to represent the Dutch, who at one point controlled the fort as well as the island.






The church built by the Presbyterian doctor and missionary and son.


Of course temples are everywhere.

As evening approached, we rendezvoused with Andrew. It had been five years since our last visit.


After supper, we introduced him to one of our favorite Taiwanese cuisines- mango bing.
Fresh sliced mango served on top a mountain of shaved iced milk is the best way to cool off after a hot day. Lucky for him, this shop is very near his classroom!



It was a wonderful ending to a super day! Andrew will be in Taiwan for another four months, but we most likely will not make it this far north again. Hopefully, we will make it to the upper Michigan peninsula next summer to visit the whole family!

At the end of the day I realized while Taipei is a nice place to visit,  I wouldn't want to live there. 

I'm a country girl.

Which is why our adventure two days later was more up my alley....